April 13, 2010
Attitude, attitude, attitude like location, is everything!
Raina showed how real confidence is expressed through her attitude. She consistently displays a genuine LOVE for what she is doing and it shows when she embraces criticism as a chance to grow instead of as an insult. She “shows up” physically and emotionally for all of her assignments happy to do what is asked
It was decided that Angelea was the “winner” of last night’s photo shoot. Brenda called it when she said that the only reason Angelea took a good photo was because her assigned role of “fashionista” or as Brenda called it “snobby” was no stretch for Angelea and we absolutely agree. While Angelea won this one, it pointed out the importance of all of the contestants and models who are serious about their careers, to be prepared. You will, throughout your careers, be asked to extend yourself emotionally into a role that you may not be familiar with on a daily basis. You will be asked to project “characters” that are foreign to you. Time spent practicing taking on different roles would not be a waste of time at all.
Alasia found herself completely out of water for the Industry Meet and Greet and worried about “how to act” in front of these people. Normally I would say to “act” the way you normally should, friendly, open, and sending the message that you are there to help them sell their products to the world. Instead her energy was spent thinking that the other girls were trying to break her “confidence”. When did cursing, screaming, name-calling and many other forms of bad behaviour pass as confidence?
Behaving like a Diva before you get your foot in the door is not going to further your cause. At the end of the day, modeling is a “business” and that means time truly is money. Energy wasted on reigning in bad behaviour, time spent telling and showing you every move in front of a camera, will not get you invited back. The focus of this week’s show was Interfacing with the Industry, but in truth that is a constant focus in the industry as without skills in this area, whatever “beauty” you possess will not be seen by those that can help you get to where you want to be.
Tips: During any and all shoots you are being asked to take on the role of….for the time it takes to shoot a few rolls of film. Practice outside of your comfort zone. Work with an aspiring photog to discover what your best angles and looks are.
If it is true, and I believe it is, that the best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour then we should be prepared for Angelea and a couple of the others to continue fighting a process for power and control, the hole time losing both.
Remember girls and guys, that who you “are”, be it confident or lacking, will shine through. One will help you build a career and the other will not.
We are creating a segment called The Model’s Tool Kit. It will contain the things that all aspiring and successful models should have with them at all times.
The first is; Learn to dress your body type. Play with this, have fun. It will take getting in front of a mirror and trying things on, playing with different concepts and finding what works for you. You are, at the end of the day, your own calling card.